What I learned when I found Myles Munroe’s iPhone

A few years ago, I was on a quest.  I was proving a point, I was getting off my ask.  

It started with a trip I wanted to go on, and asking everyone I knew for $25 for the trip.  I told everyone that I had the money, so I could afford to go, and I don’t have to go. All the same, I asked if they would give me $25 so I can go to the Bob Harrison Increase event seminar in Hawaii.

Taking action in life is something few do.  Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich, says “taking action is a true measure of intelligence.” There countless books on the concept.

My time with Myles Munroe was a perfect example of this.  

One of my goals during that trip was to have lunch, breakfast, or dinner with every speaker of that conference, so I had to look for opportunities to take action. I knew it certainly would not happen by accident. If I was looking for it to be an accident, then I needed to make that accident happen. I first saw Myles Munroe at the airport, and introduced myself at the luggage pickup.  I did not feel our relationship was at the point to ask him yet, though.  So I waited.

Later in the week, I found a iPhone on a table, ringing, but with no one answering it. So I picked it up and looked at the pictures.  It was Dr. Munroe’s. When I went to give it to him, I used that opportunity to ask him to lunch.  He graciously said yes, so we set a time. 

On the day of our visit, it ended up being quite the group. I had not specifically asked for a private lunch, and Myles had invited 11 other people besides the two of us for a total of 13 at lunch that day. During that time, I found out many incredible things about this leader.  

I asked him how he spent his time.
I asked him about some hard decisions.
I saw his interaction as a husband since his wife was there.  
I saw his interaction as a father, since his daughter was there.  (I found out she loves our Polynesian sauce and since she lived in Bahamas, she did not get much anymore, so I pulled an Arthur, and mailed her a case)

At one point I excused myself to go to the restroom, and gave the waitress my credit card, ensuring I would cover the bill.  At the end of the lunch his protege was confused, and was not happy that he did not get to pay.  He was kind of vocal about it.

Then it happened. Here is the biggest thing I learned… 

The gentleman said that Myles was his mentor, and even in this event he has not been able to get time with Myles alone. When he said it, it seemed that he might be irritated specifically at me. Without missing a beat, Myles interrupted him and said something that I will never forget.

He said to his mentee, “Here is the difference, You did not get time with me alone because you did not ask. He asked,” and gestured to me.  Then he continued “And he paid the bill because he made it happen.”

Sometimes we just do things automatically, without thinking it through completely or analyzing it.  We just do.  

This particular meeting sealed what I already knew to do. Ask. It validated to me that many of us do not get the opportunities because we do not ask or seek out opportunities.

Myles Munroe knew how do this.